By Sharla Langston
Women by nature are givers. We
give care to those we love, and time to the people and causes that mean a lot
to us. For most women, we give too much, often leaving us exhausted and frayed.
Many of us operate at the outer limits of our energy and resources and end up marginalizing
the time we give to ourselves and to God.
So what if we gave more
intentionally and made a greater impact? Elisa Morgan’s book She Did What She Could is a great
encouragement for us to make the most of our time, our resources—including our
financial blessings—our circumstances and our identity.
She Gave What She Could.
She
God had purposeful and pivotal
roles for women from the beginning of time. Eve to bring the first newborn into
the world. Deborah to deliver justice. Bathsheba to mother a great King. Rahab
and Esther to save God’s people from peril. Mary to give birth to our Savior.
Dorcus and Priscilla to help start the early Church and Mary of Bethany to be
the first to see Jesus after his resurrection. God remains purposeful in His
plans for women in the Kingdom. Could it be that God is resourcing women so
that through their hearts and through their hands the world will experience a
wave of generosity in His name?
Gave
As Elisa shows us in Chapter 2,
we are called to action. Action puts our passions into play. Mary of Bethany
used the gift of expensive perfume to anoint the feet of Jesus. Extravagant?
Yes. Unusual? Yes. As Pastor Tim Keller says, it was an act of “promiscuous
generosity.” When is the last time you gave in an uninhibited, unrestrained
way? What can you do that is extravagant for our Savior?
What
Mary gave nard – a gift calculated
to be worth almost a year’s salary in her times. What is your nard? Is it a
tithe? More? Could it be a bonus at work, or passing up purchasing a new car
for a slightly used one? What about forgoing a vacation for the opportunity to
go on a mission trip? Or simply skipping that next latte or new blouse to
support a child in school? What is the last sacrifice you made for God’s
Kingdom?
She
You cannot give someone else’s
gift. God is calling you to give from your own pocket, your own family, and your
own unique passion for serving the Lord. Giving is a sweet intimacy you share
with Jesus and is your grateful response to the One who gave all. How has God
blessed you so that you can bless another?
Could
In Chapter 10 Elisa asks, “How
has God redeemed who you are in such a way that it can be invested, all of it,
for His purposes?” He gives you a discerning heart and shows you many great
needs. Are you choosing to align your giving with the passions God has
developed in your heart? What would it look like to give intentionally to make
a greater impact?
Sharla Bickley Langston is a Partner
with Women Doing Well (www.womendoingwell.org). You can reach her at sharla@womendoingwell.org
I love those words: "She gave what she could" and that was indeed a good work. Jesus doesn't call us to burn out and endless weariness.
ReplyDeleteThank you for this reminder.