‘Tis the season for graduation speeches. If you don’t happen
to know a graduate this year, you can still benefit from the speeches - the
online news is full of the wisdom of Oprah (telling Harvard grads to learn from
failure) and Ben Bernanke (telling Princeton grads that much has been given to
them and much will be required).
As a big fan of the inspiration of graduation speeches, I
was in my element during my daughter’s recent commencement weekend. The
speeches started on Thursday at convocation, continued Friday at awards
ceremonies, Saturday at graduation and culminated on Sunday with the
baccalaureate mass. And I was taking notes on every one – because I think in
many ways, the speeches are not just for the graduates. The practice of
reflecting on the past few years and thinking about what is ahead, which is the
formula for most graduation speeches, is useful for all of us, regardless of
age or season of life.
One speaker, who was addressing students involved in social
justice activities, reminded the graduates that even though they strongly
desire to make a difference in the world, they can’t control other people’s
choices and outcomes. Sobering words for those who might idealistically be
pursuing change, but a good reminder for all of us who are involved in leading
and influencing people. We can want the
best for others, we can work for change and provide opportunities for people to
learn and grow, but we can’t make change happen in other people’s lives.
Even with those realistic but potentially discouraging
words, this speaker exhorted the students (and all of us) that working for
dignity and opportunities for all people was a worthy calling.
As I thought about her words, and the truth that people are
worth investing in, even if we can’t change them or make them take positive
steps, I was reminded of the risk that God takes with each of us, in giving us
free will. He provides opportunities for us to learn and grow, he wants the
best for us, he wants us to make good choices, but he gives us the ability to
choose – for good or not. And he still risks it all for us.
So we lead, we influence, we serve, we care, we love –
knowing that we are powerless to force change, but we do it because of the
value of each human life, that each person is worth the effort. That is a truth
to reflect on, whether you are a 22-year-old graduate, a 53-year-old mom, or
some other person of influence.
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Carla Foote is the FullFill
blog manager, publishing manager at MOPS International and does editorial
consulting at www.FinePrintEdit.com, along with being the mom to a recent
Georgetown graduate. She is looking forward to the next graduation in a couple
of years when her son completes his Ph.D. in Economics.
Thanks for this great blog Carla!
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